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Sunday, February 08, 2009

WE08 Part 4: Where is that work-life balance everyone keeps talking about?


Here is the last of our posts to wrap-up the 2008 SWE National Conference. Three short days certainly seems like a whole month of experience looking back!

Megan:The keynote breakfast started my official conference experience. The charming Paz Gomez of the Navy was asked to speak on the popular topic of work-life balance. Captain Gomez is a working mother of twins, and shared her story of the priorities and choices she makes in order to make her life work. Several times, she used the phrase, “Well, she can do it, so maybe I can to” to describe how she viewed her mentors and how she may be able to help others. She describes one of the major benefits that I find in SWE – the strong examples of women who have paved the way by structuring their lives around their goals. Captain Gomez also stressed a point I have heard from several other speakers – that ultimately, work life balance choices must be personal. The woman I want to become is someone who fulfills the qualities of these women – clear priorities, faith in themselves, and strong networking, but in the end, she must still be me.

Bianca: The keynote speech was given by Navy Captain Paz Gomez. She was introduced by Rear Admiral Hamby, a female Navy Admiral who started out by saying “Let me find my notes… Oh, nope that's not it, this is my crossword puzzle… oh, here they are, under my knitting” to emphasize the importance of having a little fun and keep your mind sharp in creative ways. Rear Admiral Hamby emphasized Captain Gomez’s ability to handle her own work-life balance by knowing the difference between the most urgent and the most important things in life. She also reminded us of the need to “Put your own oxygen mask on first” in terms of remembering that if you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of others. I really like thinking of it this way. Often it seems like the needs of others are more important - you'll take care of yourself later, when you have time. But the thing is you won't have time and if you're not getting what you need, then you won't be able to do your best for others either.

Gomez told her story of becoming a civil engineer and joining the Navy. She is the 5th woman to make Navy Captain in the Civil Engineering Corps, and the first to have a husband and children. She offered some of her own advice on how to handle work life balance, and my favorite comment was that while she may read and write e-mails on her Blackberry outside of work hours, she waits to send those messages until the start of the workday. She also asked herself, on the audience’s behalf, what is it that doesn’t get done for the sake of worklife balance? I was impressed that she thought to ask this question. She, like I suspect many of us, leaves house work off the list of priorities until guests are coming over. She also emphasized having your own definition of worklife balance and described hers in the following way:

“If you ask my husband and children, if they are proud that I am a Navy Captain, I know they will say “Yes!” If you ask my husband and children if I spend enough time with them, I know they will say “No”. But if you asked them if they would prefer I give up being a Captain to spend more time with them, I know they will say “No”.”

She said that while “enough” may never truly seem like enough, she is able to pursue her passion and enjoy time with her family and those are the things she considers to be priorities in her life. This is as good a philosophy as I've ever heard on work-life balance and this is the perspective I want to have going forward.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

SWE08 Recap Part 3 - Tips for being an Innovator

This year, I was really drawn to sessions on change an innovation. The Art of Engineering session (see previous post) certainly fit this category. A later session on Innovation in Organizations also had a few interesting items. The presenter, Nirmala Krishnan, talked about the concept of the “Zero Gravity Thinker”, or the person that is not weighed down and brings new ideas and perspective to the team. Generally, this person’s primary expertise in is a related area to the topic for innovation or is a person new to the area. Also, this is often someone who is well-rounded and open to new ideas, and is willing and able to speak up. As the details of this individual were defined, I realized that this is the role that I have been filling in my own group for the past few months. She also mentioned that similar to the issue of “Group think”, an obstacle to innovation can be “Expert think”. This is when the team is antagonistic to new concepts and falls back on automatic answers and “good enough” solutions. The “Zero gravity thinker” is there to push the team to explore new concepts and push the experts to think out of the box. For a culture of innovation, the environment should be one that embraces playfulness, supports risk taking and allows for flexibility. It has to be okay to try new things and find out that they don’t work.

Friday's first event was a panel of Technical leaders on "Women Engineers as Change" agents. The panelists offered their own approaches to initiating change, dealing with difficult times, and facilitating support for innovative solutions. Amber Huffman, a principal engineer at Intel, was highly entertaining in her own right and said several things that will stick with me for a while. My favorite was "Not everyone has to like you. In fact, it's a good thing if the right people hate you." I'm still working out exactly what she meant, but I know am always focused on making other people happy and keeping the peace and so I'm taking it into consideration. My best interpretation is that if you are pushing the boundaries of what people are comfortable with, some people aren't going to like it. If you don't get some push back, you may not be driving change.

The last session I attended was on "Six Thinking Hats". My gut reaction to this title is that this sounds like a kind of gimmicky technique and we already have plenty of those. I changed my mind when Rachel Hutter described what it actually is in her session. The Six Hats are different styles of thinking, and in a group problem-solving session they are used to facilitate "parallel" thinking. What really intrigued me about this was the contrast between my experience of brainstorming sessions, which often seem to go in circles, and the idea that a groups thinking could be harnessed in one direction. In the session, we did a quick trial run which was fun, and also a nice way to get to know others who attended. This is definitely a tool I can use and bring back to GE and I took the first opportunity to try it out with my team already this week.

Thursday, January 01, 2009

SWE08 Recap: Finding Friends and Inspiration

Since there is so much to talk about, we are posting our conference wrap-up in sections. In the second installment we are focusing on our experience of the conference as a place to be inspired and meet interesting people.

Megan: My first seminar was the “Art of Engineering” by Rachel Hutter of Disney. In my pre-college days, I was a bit of an art geek. I loved to paint, draw, craft, and I was even in a group called the Art Task Force in high school. I could spend hours lost in the Detroit Institute of Arts. When I went to college, I had to immerse myself very deeply in my technical courses to keep up, and a large part of my creativity and artsy side died for a bit. In the past year or so, I’ve pushed myself to try recapture this side of myself, but I’m continually nagged by the thought that I’m not really good. Rachel’s talk at conference introduced a reaffirmed several concepts for me that are helping me as I rediscover this core part of myself.

The first is the idea that having multiple personas is not only okay, but can also be a valuable way to bring fresh outlooks to a project. Working on my sewing, creating a painting, reading a good novel – all of these keep my mind fresh and stretched and more capable of meeting creative challenges in all aspects of life. My role as a SWE president helps me gain valuable leadership and organizational skills. This is also reinforces the idea of bringing my whole self to work, a phrase that Bianca has mentioned several times. It seems vitally important yet so easy to forget.

I also appreciated that Rachel stressed the importance of planning for and accepting inevitable failures. I work in what’s referred to as a “Lean” culture, and I feel like efforts to be lean and profitable in this ever changing economy deeply forget this. I know I forget this. I often berate myself for failures before I can step back far enough to learn from them.

Rachel also encouraged us to ask the “veggie burger question.” A devoted vegetarian, she was at first embarrassed to ask for a veggie burger at her team’s annual barbecue. However, as she stressed, it’s important to address these vital aspects of self in order to be able to fully be one’s best self in your career.

Bianca: From “The Art of Engineering” I was inspired by Rachel's passion for art of all sorts. She reminded us that we each have the freedom to choose what is art for ourselves. We can each have our own personal journey with art, involving different periods, and developing the craft as we enjoyed it. Remembering that unlike our work in engineering, art does not have to be perfect, and no one has to see it, and it can be enjoyed without those pressures.

She cited studies that have shown that people can contribute more when they have “multiple identities” – as an engineer, artist, leader, mother, and so on. Each identity provides a new perspective to learn and solve problems with, giving us more tools in our tool bag. By having diverse teams, with team members who have broad experience, you can arrive at more innovative solutions. She also brought up something that I had heard mentioned recently at GE; bringing your whole self to work. This means that you don’t try to hide who you really are from your co-workers because it is different from the “norm”. Rachel gave the example of herself as a “marathon-running, vegetarian, tree-hugger” entering an environment that was the typical old-boys network: beer, beef and golf. She said that ultimately, it was to her benefit because when Disney started working on the Animal Kingdom attraction, she was nominated for that position because people knew that she had a real passion for animals and the environment.

In engineering, as in art, you have to decide when to stop and call it finished. You must realize how to let go and move on to the next thing. Another lesson from the world of art is to accept the inevitability and utility of failure. Because failure is a necessary part of trying new things and learning, you and your employer must be willing to take the risk to try it.

Thanks to Rachel's encouragement, I was inspired to try oil painting again. I finished my first project yesterday:

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Rachel also shared some special advice for women:

  1. Learn to temper the analytical – we focus on being more analytical in college and trying to prove that we can hold our own in the workplace. Sometimes we can forget the importance of following our intuition and letting the creative juices flow.
  2. Recognize and reject the impostor syndrome. For most in South Ohio SWE, you will remember the Impostor syndrome as the short-hand way to describe when you feel like you are not as brilliant as those around you seem to think, or that you are only keeping up by working twice as hard as everyone else. By recognizing that this is a common issue you will probably find that the reality is that you are just as or even more smart, talented and capable as those around you.
  3. For women engineers, competence tends to be much higher than confidence. Women tend to sell themselves short while actually outperforming male peers.
  4. Subtle changes to communication can significantly alter the outcome. Rachel gave an example of having a discussion where you might disagree. Rather than saying to the other person “That doesn’t seem right to me” and putting them on the defensive, she would say “Why do you feel that way?” or “Why do you think that is the case?” to get into a more nuanced conversation.
  5. Her last piece of advice was that sometimes you should allow others to “feel your pain” through experience. Every year at Disney during the high traffic season, all Disney employees, including executives, are assigned to go down and work hourly jobs in the park, sweeping streets, serving drinks, and so forth. This practice allows Disney’s employees to become familiar with the real issues affecting the operation. When I heard this I immediately thought that this is something that we need to do more of in my office. Finally, during the Q&A Rachel recommended a few sources that she uses to keep up with the latest trends in business: Harvard Business Review, Fast Company and Books 24/7.
Megan: I work on a military contract at GE, and I was intrigued by a panel called “Women in Government,” which included a participant from the Coast Guard, US Army Biometrics Task Force, and two members of the nuclear regulatory commission. This session was also moderated by South Ohio’s own Mary Kinsella, who works for the Air Force Research Laboratory. As a contractor, I appreciated hearing some perspectives from the “other side.” One of the interesting comments made by a panelist was that she felt she had more power to make a larger impact working for a government agency and for managerial opportunities, because government positions are driven more towards a mission rather than a profit. The panel also highlighted benefits of working in the government, and the diverse opportunities offered by transferred to different government branches without losing seniority. This panel allowed me to see that working in the government might be more aligned with my goals than I thought, and gave me insight into an interesting career path I had never really considered.

Bianca: Meals were a great time for networking at the conference. Megan and I found Mary Kinsella of the WPAFB in Dayton at the Keynote Breakfast. At our table we met Brianna from Kellogg in Michigan, who was sponsoring the breakfast. Our table filled with women from Northrop Grumman, Lockheed Martin & Cummins Inc. As we ate, we introduced ourselves, learned about each others jobs, locations, and experiences, and just got to know each other a bit. One fun topic that came up was the challenge of working as a process engineer in food manufacturing. One of the perks, you can eat cookies freshly baked on the line! One of the challenges... the entire line must be clean enough to eat from.

Wednesday, Thursday and Friday night I joined other conference attendees for casual dinners. Wednesday I had dinner with a couple of SWE Editorial Board members, Deb O'Bannon and Sandra Wood. Thursday night at Phillips Seafood in Harbor Place attracted an eclectic group that included Shantel Samuel, one of my fellow panelists on the Rotational Programs panel, Karla Conn Welch who was a fellow UK SWE alumni who is now pursuing her Ph.D. at Vandy, Megan (our South Ohio madam president), Kate Youmans (a South Ohio SWE alum who has defected to Boston SWE) and Sharon Lee Dingle, a fellow Boston SWE member who also works for GE. Friday evening, I met DeLome Fair, who is the first woman to be named a Chief Consulting Engineer at GE Energy and found her easy to connect to and felt like we had lots to talk about. I have not had a chance to get to know our technical leaders in my own business well enough to have a long casual conversation with, so it was really cool to have that time with her. On my walk back to the hotel one evening I met a professor from the University of Alabama who turned out to have been the graduate thesis advisor for one of my friends and co-workers.

For lunch Saturday, Megan and I joined Kate Youmans and my friend and fellow panelist, Jessica Randall and learned a lot about the medical device industry and sales engineering. Afterwards, I took the afternoon to explore some sights of Baltimore with Jessie Gmeinder and her mentor Margaret Adriatico. We wandered around the Inner Harbor and historic Washington Place chatting about our choices, experiences and interests. In the three hours that we spent together, our conversation flowed from the cultural aspects of our companies to our families to an examination of our own personalities and talents. I think we also got some cool pictures.

I also met more students at this conference than I have since I was attending as a collegiate myself. Friday morning was spent on a special project for SWE Magazine that turned out to be a lot of fun. A new feature idea was proposed that involved setting up impromptu conversations between students and professionals and having them contribute a short article about the experience. I agreed to set up three of these and so the next several hours was spent finding willing individuals, arranging for recording and setting up rendezvous times and locations. It was easy and really fun to introduce people and get them talking. I think those types of conversations are what these conferences are all about, and I'm looking forward to seeing the result in the Spring issue of the SWE Magazine.

On the shuttle I took back to the convention center, I happened to meet the students from the University of Kentucky who were performing in that evenings Celebrate SWE. It was nice to be able to share some of my own UK experience with them and hopefully I will get a chance to see them again in the future.

By the time I got on the plane with Megan, I thought I had probably made as many new connections as it is possible to make. I turned out to be wrong as I ended up sitting with another conference attendee from University of Cincinnati SWE, and we just found that we had so much to talk about that the flight just zipped by. My new friend Alexzandra and I had a lot in common and I think we both enjoyed sharing our experiences. Since she is also Cincinnati, I'm very excited about the prospect of getting together for lunch or dinner and keeping that connection alive.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Beware of the dog house



This video was just so amusing that I had to share. Happy Holidays everyone!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Catching up

November and December were very busy months, so we are just now getting around to posting some of our notes from the National Conference in November. First of all, it was awesome. A lot happened, and so while Megan and I have a ton of things to share, we are going to divide it up into a couple of posts. To start with, here are some of our general impressions...

From SWE Con Baltimore 2008


Megan: I am in Baltimore, a city I have never visited. I’m at the National SWE conference for the first time, meeting a large variety of phenomenal women, and my mind keeps drifting to an American Express commercial. If you haven’t seen Diane von Furstenburg’s Amex spot, it’s available at this link:http://inside.dvf.com/dvf_magazine/2008/10/05/american-express/

I was immediately drawn to this ad during my obsessive viewing of Project Runway, and I think its appeal reached deeper than beautiful fabrics and the haunting music. Something about the concept of the woman I wanted to become resonated and became an internal theme for me at this year’s conference.

Bianca: This is my 9th SWE National Conference. Last year, I was so focused on recruiting that I had very little time for seminars and networking and other fun things. This year, I cleared my calendar so that I had total freedom of choice to make the most of every day there. My only two firm agenda items were the SWE Magazine Editorial Board meeting and the panel I moderate on Rotational Programs. Otherwise, I planned to attend as many sessions as possible, talk to and meet lots of people and enjoy myself. And pick up some fun freebies at the Career Fair!

Megan: My memories in college career fairs involve trying not to muss my clothes or resumes, and nervously targeting booths in hopes of making a positive impression to someone out there. For those who have never been to conference, the SWE career is in a league of its own, and I found value in attending even though I wasn’t looking for a position. After a fantastic performance by the Harlem Gospel choir, the career opened to a good crowd and a fairly relaxed atmosphere. I had a fun evening visiting booths and asking questions, especially for those that I wouldn’t normally think of as “engineering companies,” such as Kellogg, Hallmark and Weyerhauser paper.


Megan: One of fields I have always been interested in is biomedical engineering. My 7th grade science project was on my mom’s cochlear implant, and it has always appealed to me that I might someday be able to change people’s lives in such a personal and pivotal way. However, I was fortunate enough to accidently sit in on a session of self awareness. There was a session in the program called “The Power of Passion.” I thought it would cover a career discussion of finding a career that really drives you. However, the passion these ladies had was for a procedure called deep brain stimulation that involved a detailed discussion of brain surgery, complete with pictures. If it was not for my friend Kate distracting me, I think I would have been on the floor. I commend and applaud this industry, but have decided my way of serving lies elsewhere. I’m happy to stick with jet engines and things that don’t bleed for now.

Bianca: On Saturday, I went to the panel of Executive Women, who openly shared their personal experiences on achieving success, making mistakes, and navigating a career path. The panelists were very diverse and all had valuable advice to offer. I also attended the "Technical Poster Session" which had a diverse offering of topics including STEM educational programs, RFID technology, the impact of 3D Virtual Worlds. My favorite was 3D Virtual Worlds presented by Deepa Nair. She was so obviously passionate about the possibilities beyond the gaming world, and really engaged my curiosity.

Megan: The final activity I attended was the SWE Outreach fair. I picked up some interested pamphlets and websites on this and learned about Agilent’s premade science kits. I want to make a final plug to anyone out there that might want to help with South Ohio SWE’s outreach programs. I believe outreach is one of the more vital pieces to SWE’s mission, and one that we are currently shorthanded on.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

October SWE Happenings

Back when I was a college member of SWE, we held a Halloween pumpkin carving event and this was the result!



October is a busy month for South Ohio SWE. This Tuesday is our very timely "Wine, Women, and Wealth" event, where you can learn how to take charge of your financial future and get a better understanding of what is going on in the economy right now. We still have spots available, and the price includes a meal at the lovely Stonecreek Dining Company in Montgomery. Contact Michelle at murchis9@msu.edu or 517-230-6295 to reserve your spot.

We are also holding a General Meeting for Members to meet your officers and discuss National SWE issues. This event is on October 16th at from 6-8 at the Panera on Winton Road.

On October, 30th we are holding a UC vs. Southern Florida Tailgating party in conjunction with the UC Collegiate Section of SWE. The cost is $20/person and includes a ticket to the game and food. RSVP to southohioswe@gmail.com.

Hope you can join us for some of our October gatherings and if not, keep an eye out for latest e-mail to our listserve for the November and December updates!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

How SWE Helped Kick-Start My Career contest!

Click the link above for more information on National SWE's new contest.

We Want to Hear Your Story!
We also want to share it with SWE Collegians who are considering the transition to SWE professional memberships. As a result, you could win a Visa gift card.

How to Enter
We know that to tell your unique story, you need to tell it in your own way. That’s why we invite you to submit your story about how SWE helped kick-start your career through the method of your choice—audio, video, visual poster, written essay or poem.

How to Win
Be creative, be inspirational and most of all, just be yourself. Through this contest you will guide SWE collegians toward continued success with a SWE professional membership. Your story can help motivate them to create a success story of their own. It can also help you win a prize. First, second and third place winners will receive Visa gift cards in the amounts of $150, $100, and $50 respectively for the most inspirational stories. Winners will be announced at the WE08 Lava Lounge but need not be present to win.

Need a little help getting started? Feel free to use the following questions to get your creative juices flowing. Note: These questions are simply for guidance, you do not need to answer them in your submission.

  • What specific SWE resources helped you find a job?
  • What kind of doors did SWE networking opportunities open for you?
  • What SWE resources and/or benefits have helped you build your professional career?
  • How did your SWE collegiate membership benefits transition into SWE professional benefits?
  • What professional successes can you attribute, at least in part, to your SWE professional membership?
  • What skills have you acquired and/or fine-tuned as a result of your involvement as a SWE professional member (e.g. leadership, networking, communication)?
  • Why would you urge collegians to stay involved after moving into their careers?

All entries must be in by October 24.